The "FATHER"

According to dictionary 'Father' is just a "male parent" . But these few technical words can't describe a 'father'. Or basically nothing can describe a 'father' better than the children. In our childhood we really didn't get the meaning of 'father' or come to know what all sacrifices he has made, so that we can stand on our own legs. As a son, today I am going to express my views on the level of sacrifices and pain a person has to undergo to become a 'Father'. 

Do you know, what's the toughest job in the world ?? If you think it's C.A, an M.B.A. graduate, C.F.A, or to be in defence sector or an I.A.S. or I.P.S. officer then you are obiously wrong. A person can surely achieve any of the above designations with confidence, seer dedication, strong will power and a positive belief system, but he cannot become a father with any of the above qualities. He needs to be a good human being with high morals and values, ability to make sacrifices and always think first of his children and then of himself. He is the holy and the only soul in the world who always wishes that my children be better than me, and they never face the same struggles which I saw in my life. Otherwise in this cut-throat competitive world who else would let you be better than himself, this dare can only be done by a 'father'.

Basically, 'father' is not the part of life but he is the essence of life. Without him we are 'nothing'. It doesn't matter wheather he had studied in which school, but he always tries to send his children to the best, no matter if he sleeps in fan but he assures that his children sleeps in air-conditioner, matter not which phone he has but he assures that his children uses the best one, no matter if he goes to work on two wheeler but he assures that his children must travel in four wheeler, matter not if he hadn't his dinner but he assures that his children's stomach must be always full. These are just few of the sacrifices only a 'father' can make, so that his children shouldn't face them. 

And in return what we do to him, obiously nothing. For sure nothing in this materialistic world can ever meet the loads of sacrefices and pain which our parents made. But we can surely lighter the loads, as our parents doesn't demand for anything from us, except for love and respect throughout their life. Which we can and we should give them because it doesn't costs anything for us to make them happy, who ruined their lifes with pains behind us to make happy.

The most precious gift by god to any living creature is his/her parents. So, this Father's Day we should thank our fathers for what ever he has done to us and show him how important is 'he' to us.

'Father' is not the part of life but he is the essence of life.

-by Anadi Sharma

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